My best friend has also reminded me, several times, that grief is not linear. And also that time takes time. For what it's worth, I've never heard the theory that one should have moved on at some halfway point. That seems unrealistic and silly. If you'd like my advice, I would counsel you to pretend you've never heard of it either.
Half the time?? That’s ridiculous! Grief takes however long. I agree with Debbi you do you!! Also you don’t owe us your fans the story of the park. You can write and process it but don’t feel like we deserve to participate in that. You do not have to put that out into the world.
Thanks Sally 🙏 I definitely don’t feel like people are “owed” every story I have to tell. I just have to be careful not to put things out when they shouldn’t be/aren’t ready to be out.
My best friend has also reminded me, several times, that grief is not linear. And also that time takes time. For what it's worth, I've never heard the theory that one should have moved on at some halfway point. That seems unrealistic and silly. If you'd like my advice, I would counsel you to pretend you've never heard of it either.
I like the idea of unhearing something. And I like “time takes time.” Thanks for your words 🙏
Half the time?? That’s ridiculous! Grief takes however long. I agree with Debbi you do you!! Also you don’t owe us your fans the story of the park. You can write and process it but don’t feel like we deserve to participate in that. You do not have to put that out into the world.
Thanks Sally 🙏 I definitely don’t feel like people are “owed” every story I have to tell. I just have to be careful not to put things out when they shouldn’t be/aren’t ready to be out.